Sister Bond

Sometime it’s the distance which makes us apart from each other. Yes, Distance matters. The same thing happens with me and my elder sister after her marriage. She is happily married now since one year. To be very true, I was being brought up under my sister's shade, she was always there with me in any situation. And after her marriage it was really hard for me to accept that now I have to make my mind habitual with this.

There was a time when we were not bothered about where and when we should go. In few seconds we used to decide.. Yes we wanna have some fun time without thinking of the place to go. Whether it’s SN(Sarojini Nagar), Lajpat Nagar Market, Select city or just a walk to our nearby local shops. On every Saturday we always had an outing without even a single miss.  

After her marriage I got chance to travel to UK(London) for my official work for one and half month. I was excited to have a new experience. And as I had habit of sharing my almost every kind of experience with my sister, I wanted to have long chats with her. It was one of my amazing experiences. But after her marriage it got little difficult with the time. It’s been 3 months I returned back from UK but till now I didn't get chance to share my experience with her or to see pics together.

After marriage she is always busy with her household chores. Her time is dedicated to her new wonderful family. My Jiju(sister's husband) take cares of her a lot. But I miss her a lot. I missed her on my trip. There is no fun in shopping and visiting new places alone. I would like to have fun with her besides the London eye from morning to evening and to see the awesome view around from the top of it.  I wanna be a child again in sea Aquarium with her while watching the sea creatures. I wanna hold her hand tightly in London Dungeon.  I would like to click her funny photographs in Madame Tussaud, So that I can tease her later.  After all I am the younger one and I do have right to be naughty. Roaming around the Trafalgar Square and shopping at oxford and regent street would be awesome.  Even just watching the pigeons in front of Nation Gallery would be cool. 



I hardly got time to share my UK trip experience with her, but I would like to live those moments with her. I Love her a lot and she is the best sister in the world. It could seem to be very common words but for me, I mean it.  Your sibling is the first friend of yours chosen by god. I am blessed to have a best friend as my sister. Our most of the friends are common and I never released that I personally made a very few friends. I do have hands full of friends because of my sister today. After her marriage some misunderstanding came between us though we sorted those out. But we both miss those times when everything was even this much transparent between us, that if we used to receive each other's call, nobody got to know that he/she is talking to the wrong person. ;-)  I wish to cover the distance which came between us in one year.



Me and My sister on her marriage

One of the my sweet memories with my Sister

A trip together is a great idea to cover this distance.  I will surely Plan a trip together with her to Go further to get Closer.

Kya meri bhi Condition Serious hai??

 Before you start to answer my question, I just want to tell you that I don't think meri bhi #ConditionSeriousHai. But at the end of this entry I would like to know your views.

Here is the list usually jinki condition serious hoti hai 

1. Parents
2. Teachers
3. Relatives
4. Boss/Managers/TLs

But I am one of those lucky guy , who haven't encountered above 4 types of people in the serious condition.

But,wait  I am one of those unlucky guy, who got a close friend jiski #ConditionSeriousHai.

I won't take his name , but if my other college who will read this ,will get to know his name easily.

I studied in a govt Engineering college , due to this fact or by any other reason I may be not knowing, but i all know that going to class on time was not mandatory at all . So usually I used to sleep without alarm , so here comes his list opposite of me which shows his serious condition

1. His daily ringing loud morning alarms
2. Reaching classes daily on time[ even of 8:30 A.M.]
3. Attending classes in which only 3-4 guys are attending
4. Remembering call duration- like 5 min 18 sec
5. Saying you are late by 13 min by ur said time

Where as prefer timing only when its kinda emergency like

1.  Exams
2. Medical Emergency
3. Team meeting
4. Client calls
5. Deadlines

I wish my had a shot of 5 star over his Samsung Star 3g. :P

get the rows from table for maximum value of a column

select e.*
from table e
inner join (select column1,MAX(column2) v from table where column2='xxxxxx' and column4='yyyyy' group by column1) m
  on e.column1 = m.column1 and e.column2 = m. v ;

This can be useful for extracting data from table like
Name Salary Dept
User1 5000         IT
User2 10000 IT
User3 12000 Civil
User4 25500 Aviation
User5 16000 Civil

And the should be rows containing  highest salary in the Dept

User2 10000 IT

User5 16000 Civil

User4 25500 Aviation